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Caring Kink - Transforming Shame into Sexy

Sat, Nov 21, 10:45 AM UTC · Bristol, UK

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"createdAt": "2025-10-06T12:19:50Z",
"description": "**Transforming Shame into Sexy!: ** To be liberated from our shame is to share and play with it. By exploring edgy degradation or humiliation acts we can find so much joy and pleasure in the play and so much connection. This could include: \n\n- Selling ourselves and letting ourselves be big and flamboyant\n- Expressing our little selves and being coddled and looked after\n- Different shame edges based on gender conditioning. Eg for men it may be emasculation / sissy play or for women it could be sl\\*tting about or removing the beauty mask.\n- Clothed and unclothed play - it can be very erotic to have one person clothed and the other nearly naked. \n \n\nA little story of my early k1nk development... \nBetween ages 11-15 I was bullied by three girls in maths class. Every time. I had maths three times a week. They would intimidate me, make sexual innuendo remarks, draw on my books and eventually convince me that one of them wanted to meet me behind the bike shed, for a snog. I turned up and no one came. The next maths class was more laughter and ridicule. I used to be ashamed of this. I had many other childhood complexities... this is just one. What happened was interesting...\n\nI was very young, impressionable and sensitive. However my survival brain transformed shame into erotic power and I developed kinks around this. I got turned on by similar things and these became fetishes and explorations of female dominance, verbal play, teasing, denial and more. The more I played the more I was liberated from shame. The more I then became joyful and developed a loving attitude to myself and to others.\n\nFeel free to msg me questions. No need to bring a partner. Oh and we will play in the evening to give you space to explore and create new friendships. It's all PANTS ON to encourage sensual and erotic play without s\\*x\n\n \n\nhttps://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdrG8aqW0oqSVrlU7QkND2gs03MJkCkNinO5XlTYCrXWD7Xxg/viewform",
"endsAt": "2026-11-21T22:00:00Z",
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"name": "Bristol, UK"
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